Monday, October 02, 2006

Tired and pain...

There's time that human will get tired. Tired of works to be done, assignments that waiting for you to do, projects and even relationship.

Well, tired in working things and assignments, studies, p[rojects are quite common and most of the people can deal with this kind of stress easily. For instance, listen to some soft music to release your anger, sports... but how about tired in a relationship?

In a friendship, if two of them, X and Y are two "different kind" of person but had been really good friends for years...Finally one day, Y can't stand of X's attitude, tired of that kind of characteristic that X has... What can Y do?

- Avoid to meet X?
- Slowly don't talking to X?
- what?

what can Y do? The ways above listed, aren't the best way...Those will cause pain in both sides! The stress when come to relationships! Of course, you can't change a person's attitude easily. Rather than changing X's attitude (probably can take years or forever), Y can change his mind! Change his thinking towards X!

By this way, Y will feel better. Not that much stress when talking to X and X perhaps will think:"wow, he can actually understand my situation...perhaps I should change my attitude also..." You see! Change your own thinking, and there most likely a miracle happen!

*Nobody wants pain! Especially in a relationships! So, if you think you can't change the other one, change yourself!

God bless!

1 Comments:

Blogger glo teng said...

rmb ur own story?

in relationships or friendships, you gotta 'cut' and maybe 'hurt' each other for the better...

we are all like clay, and needs to be molded.

none of us are perfect, so just love each other :) right? Ephesians 4:32 =)

anyway, it's okay to take a break and just lay ur hands and mind off a while :)

pray that God will continue to strengthen you ^_^ jiayou!

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