Honda choir!!! Great!!!

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Must view this!!!

Ants

http://s41.photobucket.com/albums/e259/josetanks/?action=view&current=1162191976.pbw

Ants' house in my sis's shoe!! My goodness!!! Have a look... Terrible! Horrible! Vegetable!!!

But praise the Lord for she realised it and didn't wear it to school...if not, what can you imagine?!?!!

Yeah, God bless us not only in big things, small things as in "which shoe to wear", He also take care!!!

Amen!

Read this

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Well, after reading this, you still want to use those? Actually personally thinking it is not the problem of amount of "cancer-agent" inside those products... what we should take into account is HOW we use those!!!

Actually what we use daily, like hair shampoo, body shampoo, facial cleaser even toothpaste had a certain amount of chemicals...there's one suggestion I heard from a proffesional(forgot the name..hehe..):

- If you are brushing teeth, put your toothpaste on your brush, use some water to put it equally on toothbrush...it somehow balancing the chemicals and won't damage your tooth in a short time...
- If you are washing face/body/hair, put the cleanser/shampoos on your palm, put some water on it and rub it on your hand till there's bubbles come out, then only you put on your face/body/hair...

Is it very true? I don't know but I think it's right...hehe...ya, just use your daily things carefully and take care of yourself and your family.

God bless!

- Joseph

The O.T.

Those working or those who haven't work yet, you know what is O.T. ... That's over-time work.

I had it last night... tiring... but still have to work... feel like sleeping but can't! There's already morning section which enough to make your neck and your back pain, make your eyes tired... and you must continue it night where usually people resting in home, watching tv... can you imagine how bad O.T. is? I can, now and I hate it... hahaha...

Well, my O.T. wasn't that bad... cos i'm alone in my office... bos not here nor any colleagues.. so I can focus and done all things really fast... Thank Lord!!

Oh, and recently I keep thinking those which no need to think so much... still haven't get off from it... I know i have to but just can't get out... Friends, pls pray for me so that i can focus that things that I have to think, and learn to think those which is important not all this nonsence... thx...

That's all for now, my dear blog...

Repost story...

一颗种子的故事

一颗种子，长期在太阳和雨水下，会成长。。。
渐渐长成幼苗；
在这种关键时刻，竟然没有了太阳的照耀，
缺乏了雨水的滋润。。。

那幼苗，就这样重重的受到打击。。。

若这样的情况继续下去，
那颗幼苗会面对很多的挣扎，
而且会是一段很长的挣扎期。。。

最后，才慢慢的，痛苦的，死去。。。

WARNING!!!

Hey guys...

there's this virus roaming around MSN which wud give u lot of problems....

i heard it from my friend.

i think it works something like this:

Say i received a msn from a fren, asking me to open a certain link which goes something like this: "is that you in the photo? :". And so, i open it. And that page brought me to some company (according to a friend)...

Then, the virus will automatically send the same msg to the ppl on my contact list, and they wil got the virus if they open the link...

and according to another friend, he said that if your laptop is guarded and ur anti-virus program has the newest virus definition, scan ur computer and then the program will detect and delete the virus.

and then, according to another friend, there are 2 files that can't be deleted, so u got to go online to activate some anyi-virus new version thingy then only can delete.

So ya, just take note. don't open that weird link. it's some chain virus thingey =) very naughty...

Growing up(Repost)

The first day of school our professor introduced
himself and challenged us to get to know
someone we didn't already know. I stood up to
look around when a gentle hand touched my
shoulder.
I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady
beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her
entire being.
She said, "Hi handsome. My name is Rose.I'm
eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?" I
laughed and enthusiastically responded, "Of
course you may!" and she gave me a giant
squeeze.
"Why are you in college at such a young, innocent
age?" I asked.She jokingly replied, "I'm here to
meet a rich husband, get married, and have a
couple of kids..."
"No seriously," I asked. I was curious what may
have motivated her to be taking on this challenge
at her age.
"I always dreamed of having a college education
and now I'm getting one!"she told me.
After class we walked to the student union
building and shared a chocolate milkshake.
We became instant friends. Every day for the
next three months we would leave class together
and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized
listening to this "time machine" as she shared her
wisdom and experience with me.Over the course
of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she
easily made friends wherever she went.
She loved to dress up and she reveled in the
attention bestowed upon her from the other
students. She was living it up.
At! The end of the semester we invited Rose to
speak at our football banquet.I'll never forget
what she taught us. She was introduced and
stepped up to the podium As she began to
deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her
three by five cards on the floor.Frustrated and a
little embarrassed she leaned into the
microphone and simply said, "I'm sorry I'm so
jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is
killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order
so let me just tell you what I know."
As we laughed she cleared her throat and
began, "We do not stop playing because we are
old; we grow old because we stop playing.There
are only four secrets to staying young, being
happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh
and find humor every day. You've got to have a
dream. When you lose your dreams, you die.We
have so many people walking around who are
dead and don't even know it!
There is a huge difference between growing older
and growing up.If you are nineteen years old and
lie in bed for one full year and don't do one
productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If
I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a
year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight.
Anybody can grow older. That doesn't take any
talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always
finding opportunity in change. Have no regrets.
The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we
did, but rather for things we did not do. The only
people who fear death are those with Regrets."
She concluded her speech by courageously
singing "The Rose."
She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and
live them out in our daily lives.At the year's end
Rose finished the college degree she had begun
all those years ago.
One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in
her sleep.
Over two thousand college students attended her
funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who
taught by example that it's never too late to be
all you can possibly be.
When you finish reading this, please send this
peaceful word of advice to your friends and
family, they'll really enjoy it!
These words have been passed along in loving
memory of ROSE.

REMEMBER, GROWING OLDER IS
MANDATORY.
GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL.

We make a Living by what we get, We make a
Life by what we give.

God promises a safe landing, not a calm passage.
If God brings you to it,
He will bring you through it

Disturbance..

I realised...

If I think something that I do will disturb another, I won't do it even if I want
Including eating - visually disturb, phone calling, sms, reply a sms, msn reply, gmail chat, skype...

If I think those that I want to do will disturb you, I won't do it! Even I want to do it very very much...

... ... ... ...

我终于发现自己其实很软弱…
我，看起来坚强，其实，不然…
认为自己能很快的站起来；
却又趴在地上，不愿起来…

一件小小的事情，
足以让我痛苦万分；
曾经以多么伟大的话来安慰人，
却一句也派不上用场…

这几个星期内，
我完全不能做事、不专心、不投入…

我最爱做的事，我都做不成；
最爱吃的，我吃不下；
最爱玩的，不想玩…

我在想：
怎么一件事/人可以那么残忍？那么无情？那么自私？

一件小事，真的是很小的事，也在短时间内，抽完我的一切…连我的笑容，也越来越假…嘴在笑；心在哭…

原来我是那么的软弱、懦弱…

我相信神藉着这件事，会让我更成长…但是，这个过程，实在难以度过…

我还有好多话…藏在心中…难以以文字一一形容…只有我跟神知道…

我发觉，
一个能真正帮助自己的人，却是逃避自己最远的人…
一个愿意帮助自己的人，也是逃避自己最远的人…

真可笑…哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈…

… … …(不断的思索、思索那条道路… Unstopable searching, searching THE WAY...)… … … … … … … … … … … … …

ST. FRANCIS'S PRAYER

Lord, make me a channel of thy peace -
that where there is hatred, I may bring love-
that where there is wrong, I may bring the spirit of forgiveness-
that where there is discord, I may bring harmony-
that where there is error, I may bring truth-
that where there is doubt, I may bring faith-
that where there is despair, I may bring hope-
that where there is shadows, I may bring light-
that where there is sadness, I may bring joy.

Lord, grant that I may seek rather to comfort than to be comforted-
To understand, than understood-
To love, than to be loved

For it is by self-forgetting that one finds. It is by forgiving that one is forgiven.
It is by dying that one awakens to the Eternal Life. Amen.


圣法兰西斯的祷告
主，让我做你的和平之子
在憎恨之处播下你的爱；
在绝望之处播下你的盼望，
在忧愁之处播下你的欢愉；
在幽暗之处播下你的光明。

哦，主啊！使我少为自己求，
少求爱，但求全心付出爱；
在舍去时，我们便有所得，
在赦免时，我们便蒙赦免；

在死亡时我们便重生，进入永恒。

A great great example set...

I saw this in a christian magazine. Thought it'll be nice to share with my fellow friends on-line.

Say "No" to Premarital Sex

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Dear future son or daughter,

I don’t know how you look like and what to call you yet, but I surely look forward to seeing you live life the way it’s meant to be lived. I’m still a teenager and these are the best years of my life. I want you to enjoy your teenager years too and live it to the fullest in the way God wants you to. There’s this thing called ‘abstinence’ which I want you to learn. Do not let a moment of carelessness spoil a wonderful future God has for you.

Let me set this straight. Sex should happen after marriage. It is a gift from our Father to us to celebrate marriage. It should not be taken lightly or casually, instead it must be treasured. So, save the best for the person whom you love and spend the rest of your life with. It’s a great thing to present yourself as an unopened gift to your loved one. You would want him/her to be a virgin too wouldn’t you? Be careful of what the world says; be smart, and help your friends understand that too. Please keep my words, you’ll never regret.

As I was saying, enjoy your teenage years while you can. The consequences of sex can be life altering and can literally destroy you. Spend your years seeking something else; this is an exciting time where you will discover yourself! Seek God with all your heart and He has lots to show you. Do not fall into the traps of early pregnancy or STD’s. commit to God, and allow Him to help you as you make your DECISIONS.

Sex has its consequences. It can be the most beautiful experience, but if abused, it can be a regrettable decision for the rest of your life. Keep your life and body pure for God and let your wedding night counts! A long-awaited present is the most satisfying one! So, keep yourself pure and abstain from sex before marriage. It will ultimately be one of the best decisions you will ever make!



Love,
Dad

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Dear Rainoa,

Hey, Mommy here! I know you are not born yet, but I have decided to write to you, and hope that this letter can be passed to you when you are in your teenage years. My main purpose in writing this letter is to explain about premarital sex.

Okay, to get to the point, I need to warn you that premarital sex can ruin your dreams, hopes and future. You might get pregnant, and I guarantee that a guy who con you to bed is the worst guy ever, for he is taking away what is most precious to you, your virginity. I do not know what kind of sex diseases will surface in the future but presently, it’s bad enough. Mommy really loves you and will do anything to protect you from all Satan’s works.

Mommy believes what a relationship needs is love (of one’s inner beauty), trust (having faith each other), understanding (accepting each other) and most importantly, respect (the right to abstain from having sex until marriage.) Yup, relationship needs a lot of patience and self-discipline.

I am 18 now, and I have never been involve in a relationship. I think I am really being blessed by God, because He has shielded me from all pains and hurts that come with IMMATURE RELATIONSHIP. Since I was young, I have always had this wish that my first boyfriend will be my bridegroom, walking down the church aisle with me. Isn’t that sweet? You may think it is just a foolish dream but I am working on it, to find your Daddy ‘as God’s will.’

Rain, getting into a relationship after your teenage years is one of the best way to prevent you from premarital sex. It is hard, and sometimes you may get mocked by your peers, but do not despair because God is your Rock. I pray that God will bless your teenage years with happy memories.

I love you!



With love
Mommy

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*Well, how was it? The highlithed ones are those I think very very nice and have to be remembered all times! Though you might not agree some point but I think most of the point, I can accept. I like this one:" save the best for the person whom you love and spend the rest of your life with."

Save the best for the person whom you love! Though we doesn't know who is "he"/"she" but God always provides us the best one at the best time!

Just like a baby. As a parents, you can gift him an unsafe toy cos he might think it is a food to eat and accident happens; you'll give him some soft and safe toy to him right? even the baby wanted the "unsafe toy" very much, right? Only when the boy grow and realise the way to play those toy and have the consiousness that the toys cannot eat, you'll only give it to him, right?

Same case! We aren't mature enough to do something that only adult will do it better. If we want to do it anyway, without listen to God, the one who suffer is yourself!!

Hope this help you and let you learn alot, like i do!
God bless!

joseph

...

昨晚，我脑子不断转，令到我想“吐血”…既然“吐不出”，也用了笔墨，吐在我的日记里…就在要吐完前，有冲动写一篇四行诗来形容我的感受：

"
心在流血
像水不断
不必隐藏
就在心(中)"

“在哪里？在我心中！”

这一段四行诗有“内涵”的。看看谁猜到咯！
Tips: (1x1)+(2x2)+(3x3)+(4x4)= _ _ “在哪里？在我心中！”



*明白的，不一定要讲，也不必有任何表示并猜测…我只希望，读着的人，明白我，就够了！

憎恨 Hatred...

憎恨， 已经辖制了我的脑、我的心；无法以理性超越…
我恨我自己；
我自己做过的错误决定、
我自己的无知、
我自己无能的“控制力”、
我自己的愚蠢、
我自己看些不该看的；想些不该想的；做些不该做的…
… … … … … … …

我无法超越自己…
我也开始恨人…
到一种程度，只要看到那个人、或想起那个人，心就非常“不爽”！想立刻发泄！

最近的我，很情绪化…小小的事情，可以让我的“火山爆发”…也许没有人看得出，但的确如此…

我想找人分享，但又没有人选…有人选了，却又不知从何说起…所以，也干脆不说了…

我想逃避…不要去想这些问题…但，偏偏在我的灵修时段，每一样我不想想的，都一一在我眼前出现…也许太安静，我的脑就开始转动…也因此，我不想“安静”了…我希望，每时每刻，我身旁都有人，这样，我的脑就受到控制，而不想太多…

最终，我逃避“灵修”…求主怜悯…我好自私…总想到自己…

*我要如何面对 要如何解决
自己的愚蠢 自己的无知
害怕 自己无法面对
迷茫 的生活步骤
只希望 ev'rything will be "ok"...

Tired and pain...

There's time that human will get tired. Tired of works to be done, assignments that waiting for you to do, projects and even relationship.

Well, tired in working things and assignments, studies, p[rojects are quite common and most of the people can deal with this kind of stress easily. For instance, listen to some soft music to release your anger, sports... but how about tired in a relationship?

In a friendship, if two of them, X and Y are two "different kind" of person but had been really good friends for years...Finally one day, Y can't stand of X's attitude, tired of that kind of characteristic that X has... What can Y do?

- Avoid to meet X?
- Slowly don't talking to X?
- what?

what can Y do? The ways above listed, aren't the best way...Those will cause pain in both sides! The stress when come to relationships! Of course, you can't change a person's attitude easily. Rather than changing X's attitude (probably can take years or forever), Y can change his mind! Change his thinking towards X!

By this way, Y will feel better. Not that much stress when talking to X and X perhaps will think:"wow, he can actually understand my situation...perhaps I should change my attitude also..." You see! Change your own thinking, and there most likely a miracle happen!

*Nobody wants pain! Especially in a relationships! So, if you think you can't change the other one, change yourself!

God bless!

Marriages? Boy and Girl relatioship?

I've attended 2 marriages in a day, which was last saturday. I've got an important point that what had the pastor shared in that two sermons...

Firstly, he talks about why women is created. The bible said that:

[And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. Gen2:18]

and later on, the Lord created women from man. Well, what was the orriginal purpose was God's creation of women? Is to help the man! See? "I will make him an help meet for him"... Well, it's the only purpose of women, as a helper? of man?

Not exactly. The "helper" in this verse can be described as "support"! Whatever the husband do, the wife will support him. It also somehow pointed out that man can't live ALONE! He needs help! So, dear wives in the world, don't think you are useless in your family! Absolutely no! Man can't lives without you! See? The bible verse said that "it is no good that the man should be alone..." Therefore, being supportive is a sign that show you love him!

[And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; Gen 2:21]

Why the Lord took the rib? not bones from the head nor leg nor any other parts of the man? The pastor said there's one japanese theologist said this:

[If God took the bone from the head to create women,

women will think to conquer man's mind;

If God took the bone from the head to creat women,

man will think to step on women;

then why God took rib to create "her"?

Because rib is the bone that close to "his" heart. This of course meaning man shall protect their women from harms! and love her with all your heart! cause the Lord took your rib which close to heart and you protect her meaning you are protecting your heart! Your sweet heart!]

In the bible, Paul said this:

5:22
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

5:23
For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

5:24
Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

5:25
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

5:26
That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,

5:27
That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

5:28
So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

5:29
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:

5:30
For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.

5:31
For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.

5:32
This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.

5:33
Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.